So, Veterans Day is over.
I attended the local Veterans Day with the VFW Post I belong too. It was inspiring to see Veterans from our Nation’s times of conflict and hard earned time of peace over the last 75 years, together in one place, being recognized by the community for their service and sacrifice.
A choir of children sang.
Local news organizations took photos.
A wreath was placed at a monument.
Everyone there was, with smiling faces, thanking veterans for their service, asking what branch they were in and where they’ve served.
Veterans were gathered in small groups trying to stay out of the way. Talking to each other about moments from their times in service, in the back of their mind remembering those who did not make it home.
All of this “thanks” and “recognition”, yet the problems that veterans deal with daily are still not addressed…VA healthcare, PTSD, homelessness, hunger, suicide.
There is an old adage that goes along the lines of, “Don’t bring problems bring solutions”, or something to that affect.
Call me “lucky” or “blessed” or whatever, the majority of my friends and friends on social media are veterans. The other people are my family (several of them are veterans as well), and the rest are friends of mine prior to my enlistment that have been nothing but supportive of me, while on active duty, deployed and now as a veteran.
Enough thanks can’t be said to friends and family like that.
When a friend you haven’t spoken to in almost 20 years says that you and other veterans are hero’s for what you have done on behalf of America, it causes one to stop short for a speechless second, humbled that people think of you as a “hero”.
I’m no hero.
Though, I know some that I would consider heros.
I’m just the guy who woke up every day and did my job, and now I’m coming to realize weather you were kicking in doors, turning a wrench, sitting in a guard tower, running convoys, or putting ordnance on bad guys… people think you are a hero.
I’m not sure how it is for other veterans, but, my circle of family and friends has always been a support system that is always there when I’ve needed encouagement.
That support system is the first line of defense against potential issues or problems that affect veterans. That is where issues and problems can be identified and addressed the quickest.
Those friends and family that watch over veterans are the greatest help a veteran can have.
People have asked me from time to time about the best way to help veterans. Most folks say something along the lines of, “I bought an Under Armor Wounded Warrior Project shirt,” or “I donated 20 bucks to (pick your organization) at their fundraiser outside Sam’s Club the other day”. While those donations are important, greatly appreciated and needed, the most important thing anyone can do is stay on top of elected leaders in regards to veterans and military issues.
Without sounding politically charged, there should never be an idea, brought before any branch of government, about underfunding the VA to give money to some other organization.
I read a lot on social media about people complaining about the VA, and most of that is probably warranted. But sitting there and bitching about things on social media, waiting for someone else to see what was written and take the reigns and drive that idea home until it’s a law signed by the President, doesn’t fix the problems.
Yellow ribbons won’t fix the problems at the VA.
Replacing one light in your house with a green light bulb doesn’t stop veteran suicide.
It’s going to take time and election cycles to affect the changes that are necessary to rebuild the bureaucratic system that the Veterans Administration has become.
Annoy elected officials with written requests and don’t support them when its campaign time until they are doing all that they can to help veterans. Do what you can in your neighborhood to help local veterans, support the local Veterans of Foreign Wars of the United States, Disabled American Veterans, American Legion, just to name a few. By supporting these veteran service organizations, whether financially or as members, you are giving these organizations funds and members that give them the leverage to work in Washington. As the veteran community gets smaller, so does our voice in Washington. We are losing large numbers of World War 2 and Korean War veterans every day.
We as veterans and you as civilians need to do our part and keep our elected officials in line, and when they don’t keep their “promises”… remind them. If worse comes to worst, use our collective voices and remove them from offices.
The struggle continues…
Freedom isn’t free
JS